Saturday, November 29, 2014
" OH, THE STUPID MIND GAMES, HUMANS PLAY WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX "
During my 20's, I had never understood how stupid people really are by playing mind games that
they feel will make them seem more intelligent and successful. The bull-shit and big talk about
all that they have done so far in life; The cash they make and the cars and fancy shit they feel make
them a successful person, to me make them look Weak and Foolish!
Regardless of what I have attained in my life, I have never had the desire to use my achievements as
Bragging Rights! I have always Supported and Encouraged every soul, that I have encountered and I
owe Nothing to anyone! Surprisingly and Unbelievably, by this age in life...
There are still a few so called 'men', who got the nerve and stupidity to try and Challenge my
Intelligence, acting as though they are still 18 years of age!
I cannot be bought, manipulated nor made feel guilty because I keep myself 'In Check' at all times!
When someone tells me they want to be Friends, I never reject. I say "I am attached to someone and
I am not looking to be more than friends!" Some of you have experienced this for 30 years with me!
Forever trying to dangle glitter and glam to see if I can be tempted! I have news for you...
I don't care how Macho or Successful, you are... Or how Intelligent. You will not bate me into
Recently, a person, I thought was a very good friend of mine, who I respected gave me some news
that he wanted more than friendship. I told him, I am not available and reminded him, that he already
knew that I wasn't single before the friendship started.
He kept on with the friendship so I stayed Friendly and Supportive and... Incredibly Understanding!
It was all going well, so I thought but He decided to give me an ultimatum...
Something No one should ever do to someone like me, who Do Right By Everybody!
His ultimatum was for me to give him an answer: Yes or No and not more than that!
So, my answer was "NO".
His reply was: "Then Do not keep in-touch with me".
Does anybody think they know, how that shit made me feel?
Apparently, this bloke does not know and now... He is hounding me with how I made him feel bad
and even Insulted me greatly with something that I will not let anyone get away with!
Here is the mind game, he is playing...
First, Try to make her or him feel guilty
Second: Try to see if she or he will get jealous.
Third: Do anything that will Insult her or him so that she or he must respond to the stimuli
Fourth: Talk badly about her or him to others to see if Anger will work to get her or him back
I have news for men such as this guy... "I can let my Former Marine Boyfriend handle your
your ass for the Disrespect, Fortunately for you, He has never given you any worth!
Lucky for you, I know how to handle and dismiss such child play!"
This display of foolishness is only making you look worse! You should have just tried to be real!
The reaction you want from me? Sorry, you will never get that! You wanted to have the last word?
I gave you that Privilege,..
I do that for every idiot I deal with, so don't Flatter yourself!
I have done Right by everyone and have never abandoned nor betrayed, so to be honest with you...
I have no emotions towards a person, who befriended me with his hidden ulterior motives, which
are now too apparent!
I said it once before... " I am No ordinary Female "
I can forgive, understand, have great compassion, will support and encourage every friend I have!
However, Realize that picking a fight or an argument with me, is Illogical and very unwise!
GOVERN YOURSELF ACCORDINGLY!
Thursday, November 27, 2014
Latia's Thoughts.....: " Do any of the people you interact with deserve y...: " DO ANY OF THE PEOPLE YOU INTERACT WITH DESERVE YOUR TIME AND EFFORT? " This is another irritating question, that we need an...
" DO ANY OF THE PEOPLE YOU INTERACT WITH DESERVE YOUR TIME AND EFFORT? "
This is another irritating question, that we need and should ask ourselves...
The majority of humans are out-going and want a social life, of some sort. If by chance, they are not,
most of them try very hard to be, due to fear of Loneliness. As for myself, I like spending time alone
and quite enjoy it.
I have tried to enjoy the Fun of being in a social environment...
Laughing at stupid jokes, which I have no understanding of and I have even tried to be in attendance
of simple means, which only led to more attention! By the time I was in my early 20's, I began to
question the value of this so called Interactions with others in my life.
Using the logical mind that I was blessed with, I realized that Social gatherings were not for me.
Laughing at jokes that were not funny became Foolish to me and a waste of my precious time!
There were only a handful of souls, I cared to understand and relate to, Sometimes, even those few
made me question my presence with them at the time.
I really had to open my mind to see, if this issue stemmed from a bad experience or was it part of my
My preference towards privacy and isolation made me appear Introverted, even to myself!
What was shocking is that everyone always wanted me to be around and would laugh with me
during each and every conversation. Perhaps, they thought I was Mad?
Perhaps, they enjoyed my Honesty? I really could not tell you why.
All I know is that I get invited out all the time and unless, the person inviting is in my circle of
comfort, I would say no.
However, although I was careful of whom I spent time with, when I did spend time with them,
I always had the urge to question why?
What made that person special enough for me to leave my lovely place of serenity?
I appreciate every single person, I have ever encountered because they deserve to be appreciated for
who they are and that includes even the silly things!
That to me, was a Catalyst in enabling me to change towards Respecting their life as a human.
So much drama and fuss over the silliest things like: Who was the better man or woman.
What people did for a living and how much money do they have or make?
Was there a God and if so, he must be a cruel God to allow so much devastation!
Really? I am expected to participate in a meaningless conversation that would probably lead to an
argument... Oh, No thank You! Keep your opinion to yourself and perversions too!
I have always been an open-minded person and non-judgmental.
It's all good, as long as nobody tries to push anything on me! That is something that will make me
Angry. and for some reason, most do not want to see that happen!
However, every so often, there will be one, who feels that they need to challenge me, on more shit
that is useless to even use as a topic, in a conversation!
I am at fault for being too polite at first and will always try to deflect and derail the speed of drama
that tends to escalate into a debate or an argument.
But Piss me off enough by pushing too far and I will never have a problem castrating egos at large!
Therefore, to answer my own question... Do any of the people I interact with deserve my time and
effort? My answer will have to be: Not a chance! I choose to enjoy them by giving them my time and
effort, otherwise... I'd be deemed completely Mad and a lying hypocrite!
If you are one of my chosen friends, you know that I value your company, because if I did not?
You would certainly not hear from me or see me at the local bar flapping my gums about shit that do
not contribute to an exchange of encouraging words.
Too many negative humans, who think they know everything and so damn judgmental to those less
fortunate than them!
Knowing why you are interacting with certain people is very important to your mental growth,
So think about that and try to forget the shit , most people want to brainwash you with.
My challenge to you is to evaluate your so called circle of trust and friends...
There were so much more I wanted to add to this post but time is up!
Be careful of those who flatter you with Insincerity. It will lead you to a path that you wish you'd
never gone on!
Saturday, November 22, 2014
" COULD YOU HAVE MADE A BETTER CHOICE AT THE TIME? "
Let's think seriously about this question...
Could you have made a better choice at the time? I have asked myself the same question a million
times and you know what keeps coming back to me, as an answer? NO.
I have gone through all the different scenarios that may have given me a different life and somehow,
I keep coming up with the same answer...
I made the choices I made, because they were correct at the time for my heart, my spirit and my
If you are Straight-Minded, then you never need to question your sanity.
If you are with a good Spirit, then you need not question if your motives were less than Pure.
Finally, if your Heart is clean, then there is no need to question Love and Honorability.
Once I realized those facts, I then came to the conclusion that my choices were perfect for me,
although the outcome were not the kind I had anticipated.
Many times, the choices we thought were wrong, were actually the perfect choice for us to learn
something valuable. It's different for each of us, so I can only speak for myself...
The most important lesson, I learned was to become Forgiving!
The other lesson is No human can be trusted!
Another lesson is to Remember Who I am!
At the risk of sounding pompous, humans rarely impress me and when they do? It is short lived.
I do not ask myself that question anymore about past decisions, but I am still careful on present
and future decisions. At my age, I don't care to learn about life too much more!
I have learned all the necessary evil, I can withstand...
The one other thing, I must mention is the fact, that most humans do not listen to reason.
They are defiant and ignorant. They are mostly trying to numb their pain rather than deal with it like
a good soldier! No, I cannot blame them. Just because I am not like that, it does not make them
wrong and I correct.
I have my set of very Strict Rules for myself, that most would not consider for their lives!
Wherever each of us stand with Decision Making, I just want to encourage you Not to pity yourself
for the outcome of what you think was an incorrect decision.
Try to Learn from it and Grow.
You might surprise yourself and see Someone, you should have loved and protected since the